Parent Resource Page

Supporting parents and families with information about resources and services

The following materials have been curated by district staff to help parents set their children up for success inside and out of the classroom. Check back often for updated tools and resources to help support your young learners.

CBIEPCompetency Based Inclusive Education Plans
ELLEnglish Language Learners Resources
Community Agency Programs Community Agency Programs of Support for Children, Adolescents and Families 鈥 September 2023 Calendar
Talking to your kids about 鈥榮tranger danger鈥Talking to your kids about 鈥榮tranger danger鈥
SOGISexual Orientation and Gender Identity (SOGI)

Kamloops SOGI Services 

Safe Spaces 鈥 Interior Community Services Program Information

Safe Spaces is available in both Kamloops & Merritt and provides:

  • Drop-in and individual appointments
  • Weekly peer group meetings; workshops for community and school groups on homophobia and heterosexism
  • E-mail outreach and support
  • Resource and lending library
  • Referrals to other services

Who Is Eligible?

Safe Spaces is open to people 12-26 years of age.

How to Refer: No referral is required, we are an open door to the community.

Contact Information

Staff Cell: 250-371-3086 (both locations)
Kamloops Office: 250-554-3134
Merritt Office: 250-378-9676

Please call to get program locations

PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People)

Kamloops Chapter
Contacts: Jim and Grace Williams
Phone: 1-888-530-6777 ext. 579 (toll free)
Email: PFLAG

Kamloops Pride

Facebook: @KamloopsPride

Orchard Walk Medical Clinic

Supporting Team Excellence with Patients Society (STEPS) at the Orchard Walk Medical Clinic provides general family practice, primary care access and services for LGBTQ2S. As well, Dr. Harvey provides gender-affirming care and general primary care for the LGBTQ2S community.

Phone: (250) 828-8080
Useful Links (SOGI)
Parent Engagement SessionsParent Engagement Sessions

Vaping and Youth - Why Connections Matter

In this one-hour session, we will share some tips and tricks for talking to young people about vaping. We will then outline healthy and unhealthy coping and discuss how to support young people in developing healthy coping strategies and in building connections.

Digital Vaping Resource Kit

Keeping the Connection

Ways that Parents and Caregivers Can Support Youth Regarding Substance Use Issues

All young people face decisions about drug use, even those who choose (for now) not to use. How best can parents and caregivers support adolescents to make healthy choices regarding alcohol, vaping, cannabis and other substances? 

Cybersafe from Exploitation

Learn about all forms of sexual exploitation amongst teens online, the current trends, the warning signs, and the practical steps parents can take in keeping their teens safe. 

A Canadian expert in the field of anti-human trafficking and sexual exploitation, Tiana Sharifi is the founder of the agency, Sexual Exploitation Education, which seeks to provide a dynamic approach to prevention of sexual exploitation. Using her background in Psychology and Counseling, in addition to her expertise in this field, she has worked effortlessly and with intention to incorporate her knowledge from both spheres into a successfully new approach to prevention on this prevalent matter. Since its inception, SEE has been a leading agency in this field, being called upon for research, pro-d keynotes, international conference presentations, nation-wide law enforcement trainings, and non profit consulting. Tiana has presented to over 40,000 students and adults across Canada, utilizing an innovative and accessible approach to prevention.

Your Child and the New Competency Based IEP

Does your child have an Inclusive Education Plan (IEP)? If so, then this session is for you! School District No.73 is rolling out competency-based IEPs in September 2022. Learn how competency-based IEPs are similar and yet different from the current IEP being used. You will also learn more about how you, the parent/guardian, will be a significant stakeholder in the development of the new competency-based IEP process.

Parenting and Anxious Child

At times, everyone has anxiety but for some children, anxiety can be overwhelming and an obstacle to enjoying kid activities like going to school, joining after school programs, having fun with friends, and trying new things.

In this one-and-a-half-hour session, 糖心Swag Mental Health Clinicians will provide anxiety 101 information and some tools that can help at home.


POPARD Family-School Liaison Workshop:

Understanding ADHD - Video Presentation

In this presentation (), Dan shifts mindsets from the symptom focused Outside-In Perspective; to the Inside-Out Perspective which provides a simple and useable understanding of ADHD brain function. The ADHD Inside Out Framework that he has developed allows participants to understand and respond to ADHD properly; what鈥檚 more, it explains ADHD in simple terms, which makes the Framework useable by anyone who encounters ADHD.

Dan offers strategies to help your student succeed in an educational setting.

Dan Duncan is an ADHD Coach/Consultant who coaches privately through his business ADHD Inside Out. He works in association with the BC Interior ADHD Clinic, and UBCO as an academic strategist.

Dan was diagnosed with ADHD in his 30鈥檚. Together with his wife, he raised two sons - one has ADHD, the other does not. The son with ADHD is in his first year of full-time teaching as a grade 9 teacher, while his other son is completing a Masters degree.

Inclusive Sexual Health

1-800-SEX-SENSE (1-800-739-7367)

This website provides contact information that can help provide any information regarding sexual health. Exclusive for BC residents, the people that talk on the other line are registered nurses, clinical counsellors and educators. All information provided is kept confidential.

Raising Digitally Responsible Youth

Your child has now entered into their digital media lives, where cell phone ownership doubles, video game use explodes and they dive into the world of social media and hypertexting. Your child is rapidly developing their personal identity with cell phone in hand and you need to be prepared. Family rules, parental controls and developing a family tech plan will be outlined as well as recommendations for monitoring your teen鈥檚 digital life.

As a parent, you must lead the charge as a digital role model and help your child develop a strong digital citizenship foundation while reminding them that their digital footprint is a reflection of their real and online selves. At this age, they will encounter situations that will challenge their independence, including cyberbullying (and more commonly 鈥 cyberexclusion), the dangers of anonymity, privacy, sharing intimate images, and inappropriate websites, and you need to be there to provide support and guidance during this critical period. Finally, to better equip you for your digital parenting strategy, a snapshot of the current trends and concerning apps will be provided.

For more information please see Raising Digitally Responsible Youth: A Parent's Guide.

Presentation at 糖心Swag by Robyn Boffy from Safer Schools Together. 

ADHD Resources
Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD)

WRaP 2.0:

  • Website:

Asante Centre:

  • Website:

FASD Network:

  • Websites:

Me & My FASD:

  • Website:
Safer Schools

Administrative Procedures:

Substance Use Education Alerts - Sign up to get notifications Alerts are notifications sent out to inform the public of concerning technology trends and new resources designed to increase children鈥檚 personal safety. As Canada鈥檚 national tipline for reporting the online sexual exploitation of children, the information reported to enables us to identify the online risks children and youth are facing. Recognizing that it can be difficult to keep up with technology, signing up for these alerts provides you with important information to help keep your family safe while using the various popular platforms on the Internet.

Sign-up  to receive Alerts notifications.

Wellness Apps and Tools

Foundry App Helps Youth Facing Unprecedented Stress 

Mental health and substance use services and supports are faster and easier to access for youth and their caregivers across BC with the .

It was co-created by youth for youth for 12-24 year-olds. Services offered include drop-in and scheduled counselling, primary care, peer support and group sessions.

teaches about anxiety, helping users to engage in healthy thinking and to take action

Anxiety management programs with a series of lessons for children, teens and adults

Help Children to use the 鈥淏reathe, Think, Do鈥 strategy to calm down, identify their feelings and work to solve their problem

Happify provides effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts

Interactive Wellness Tool

We know how tricky it can be for families to navigate the mental health system. Hopefully the information in the new can be helpful when looking for supports and services in BC for children and youth.

With the help of FamilySmart parent peer support workers at the Kelty Centre, this tool offers suggestions about where to go and what to expect when looking for support options.

You can type your question into the tool, and find answers to commonly asked questions families have such as:

  • My child needs help now, what can I do?
  • How do I find counselling?
  • What can I do while my child is on a waitlist?
  • I am struggling to cope with my child鈥檚 illness. Where can I get support?

Mental Health

Mental Health and Wellness Support for Those Affected by Wildfires

Kids Help Phone is available 24/7 to anyone (youth or adult) providing free, online mental health services. Support is available through text, phone, and online chat. 

 for school communities affected by wildfires.

For more information, visit  and the ministry鈥檚 erase .

Conversations about Global Issues

: Common Sense Media gathers tips and conversation starters to help you talk to kids of different ages about the toughest topics. 

: This article from the American Psychological Association can help adults guide their young children beyond fear and to resilience. 

: The American Psychological Association breaks out tips and strategies for parents and teachers of middle school-aged children. 

: Provides resources that can be filtered by topic or keyword and by audience with a focus on how adults can identify traumatic responses in young people and how to support them.

Ministry of Education and Child Care

The Ministry of Education and Child Care鈥檚  strategy was expanded to include mental health.

For more information about available child and mental-health supports and contact information, visit:  page.

Crisis Lines and Contacts
Hope for Wellness Help Line
  • Mental health and crisis support for Indigenous Peoples across Canada
  • 24/7
  • 1-855-242-3310

KUU-US Crisis Line

  • Provincial Aboriginal Crisis Line
  • 24/7
  • Children/Youth  250-723-2040
  • Adults/Elders 250-723-4050
  • Toll Free 1-800-588-8717

M茅tis Crisis Line

  • Provincial M茅tis Mental health and crisis support
  • 24/7
  • 1-833-638-4722

National Indian Residential School Crisis Line

  • provides support to former students and their families for emotional support and crisis services
  • 24/7
  • Toll Free  1-866-925-4419

BC Mental Health Line

  • Provincial resource
  • 24/7
  • 310-6789 (no area code)

Helpline for Children

  • Provincial resource
  • 24/7
  • 310-1234 (no area code)

Foundry App

  • Provincial resource
  • 24/7
  • Youth aged 12-24
  • 1-833-308-6379
Emergency Assistance
  • If you, or someone you care about, are feeling overwhelmed or feel like you want to harm yourself or others call  9-1-1  
  • BC Suicide Line: If you are considering suicide or are concerned about someone who may be, please call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) or visit the 

  •  - Immediate support and information and if necessary referrals to community services agencies

  •  (24 Hour Crisis Line for Aboriginal Adults/Elders & Youth) Toll free 1-800-588-8717

  • Native Youth Crisis Hotline (24 hour crisis line available throughout Canada) 1-877-209-1266

  • Ministry of Children and Family Development

    • If you think a child or youth under 19 years of age is being abused or neglected, you have the legal duty to report your concern to a child welfare worker. Phone 1-800-663-9122 at any time of the day or night

Interior Health

Rekindled Trauma - Former Kamloops Residential School

Every Child MattersJune 2, 2021 - Here are some useful tips for parents and educators about how to talk to students and children about the recent confirmation of the remains of 215 children found buried at the former Kamloops residential school. Some of what follows is information from the North American Centre for Threat Assessment and Trauma Response (NACTATR), which among other things, is dedicated to preventing and reducing violence and trauma in North America through training, tools and technology. 

We would like parents and guardians to know, too, that along with Sherri Mohoruk, from Safer Schools Together, NACTATR Executive Director J. Kevin Cameron will be a guest at the June 3, 2021 District School Leaders' meeting. 

We will continue to post resources here, as they become available.

The Unfolding Events at the Former Kamloops Residential School (NACTATR)
This information has been provided by the North American Centre for Threat Assessment and Trauma Response (NACTATR), which among other things, is dedicated to preventing and reducing violence and trauma in North America using training, tools and technology.

鈥淒uring this time of profound traumatic reliving for Indigenous People in every Nation in Canada surely the rest of us can be still and listen to the cries from the dust and lift up the arms that hang down and steady the gaze of one with a broken heart with the sound of our voices that simply say 鈥淚 believe you鈥, 鈥淚 care鈥 and 鈥淚 am beginning to see these things more clearly now鈥.

J. Kevin Cameron, Executive Director, NACTATR

The greatest fear for any victim of abuse is that, if they tell, they will not be believed. The other is that, even if they are believed, no one will care. How immense is it when that feeling has been the lot of an entire people?

It is clear that trauma is stored in the body and very much at the cellular level, including the burdens of intergenerational trauma. The bodies of over two hundred children found in the grounds of the former Kamloops Residential School in Tk'eml煤ps te Secw茅pemc First Nation has magnified that burden as the past and much of the unresolved present now converge.

Too many Non-Indigenous Canadians have not applied themselves to understanding the true history of Indigenous People and First Nations upon these lands. Many assume that residential schools were schools. In fact, they did not uphold safe and caring learning environments. Residential schools began the dissolution of the family unit and the confounding of natural law where parents and communities of parents raise a child.  

In a way, every Indigenous person, whether they were in a residential school or not, is a residential school survivor. Why these schools were constructed and what happened within them is symbolic of the intense racism of 鈥渢hat day鈥 and the ongoing systemic racism of 鈥渙ur time鈥. The true character of a so-called modern nation should be measured in the treatment of their Indigenous people. We cannot all move from this land, but we should be moved by the bright and penetrating light shone upon this crumbling cornerstone of Canadian society.

One of the basest comments made by some is to say to an immigrant to Canada: 鈥済o back to where you came from鈥. This comment often comes from a white citizen who is making the comment with little insight into where they themselves 鈥渃ame from鈥. Some will say, 鈥渨ell other cultures are racist to us鈥. It is true that the scourge of racism throughout the world is not limited to whites as the protagonist, but in North America 鈥渨hite is the colour of the canvas that racism is painted upon鈥.

It is admirable for Canadians to keep the peace in other countries but not while failing to keep the peace and promises in this one. During this time of profound traumatic reliving for Indigenous People in every Nation in Canada surely the rest of us can be still and listen to the cries from the dust and lift up the arms that hang down and steady the gaze of one with a broken heart with the sound of our voices that simply say 鈥淚 believe you鈥, 鈥淚 care鈥 and 鈥淚 am beginning to see these things more clearly now鈥.

We must understand that trauma does not necessarily create new dynamics in human systems, it just intensifies already existing symptoms. Therefore, this is not a time for us to seek out the positives in the hope of lessening anyone鈥檚 pain, it is a time to be present and to listen. Even for those who have not experienced it, every parent or caregiver should be able to imagine the bitterness of what it may be like to lose a child. But how bitter? Only those who have experienced it can tell.

Our foundation for providing support from a crisis and trauma response perspective should begin by ensuring physically safe environments for emotionally safe connections. Like any grieving family there needs to be a time of coming together. For many Non-Indigenous people, we must sometimes wait to be invited in if we have not yet proven to be an ally. Indigenous individuals and families who do reach out should be willingly wrapped around by all support services (Indigenous and Non-Indigenous) with the goal, as appropriate, to connect them with members of their families and communities.

During traumatic aftermath some people need to talk and others do not. Secure and caring attachments will lower anxiety more than any words. Be ok with intensified emotions that will build over the days to follow. The fields of Violence Threat Risk Assessment (VTRA) and Crisis/Trauma Response are inseparably connected.

From time to time there may be those who lack compassion or insight who may attempt to cause further emotional harm to those who are grieving. As such, local crisis response teams should prepare, as necessary, for 鈥淲hole Community鈥 interventions to support Indigenous and Non-Indigenous children, youth and families in processing the many implications and effects of the untold stories of these lost members of the human family.

However, do not expect human weakness among Indigenous Communities at this time. Expect pain, sorrow and a profound sadness but in all my life I have never seen a more powerful and resilient people than members of the First Nations of this land. I stand amazed at the unconquerable spirit of those I have grown to love. Today, be on the right side of history.

J. Kevin Cameron, Executive Director, NACTATR

How to Talk to Your Children About the Unfolding Events at the Former Kamloops Residential School (from NACTATR)
 Dr. Marleen Wong


In the 1800s and through the 1900s Indigenous children in North America were taken from their homes and forced to attend boarding schools.  They were punished for speaking their native languages and deliberately stripped of engaging in or even thinking about their spiritual and cultural values and practices.  Even in the face of child labor laws, they were made to work long hours in unpaid manual labor.  Many of the children were badly neglected.  All were emotionally abused if not physically or sexually abused.

Alive today are those who survived the experience of the residential boarding schools.  From first-hand experience, they knew children who did not survive.  The wounds are deep with words such as historical trauma and genocide used to describe what has occurred.

Dr. Maria Brave Heart defines historical trauma as the 鈥渃umulative鈥 psychological wounding over the life span and across generations, emanating from massive group trauma experience.鈥 She emphasized that we must be especially aware not only of the effects of multigenerational historical trauma but the ways in which each family and tribal community frames the story and meaning of their losses.

For adults, she identifies four components designed to foster healing from trauma and grief:

1) confronting the history;

2) understanding the trauma and its effects;

3) releasing the pain; and

4) transcending the trauma. 

This is a difficult and heart wrenching journey for adults. How can we talk with children about this tragedy?

*Maria Yellow Horse Brave Heart, PhD (Hunkpapa/Oglala Lakota), Associate Professor of Psychiatry and Director of Native American and Disparities Research at the Center for Rural and Community Behavioral Health, University of New Mexico, Albuquerque.

 For Our Children Today

In this segment, we draw from the work of multiple expert sources:  The National Child Traumatic Stress Network, the American Psychological Association, and organizations that educate children about the Holocaust in which six million Jews were exterminated because of hate, bigotry and unrelenting political scapegoating and condemnation.  You may recognize common elements. However, we are organizing them to align with what we know about prevention, intervention and resilience research in child trauma, brain science and the healing power of meaningful connections and conversations between caring adults and children.

- Take a moment. Take a deep breath.Take stock of your own emotions before talking about the Kamloops tragedy with your child.The purpose of your conversation is to understand and to address your child鈥檚 concerns. Your child needs you to be calm and to reassure them that their safety is of greatest important to you. 

- Listen to your child鈥檚 fears, questions, worries to understand what they are thinking or feeling without criticism or judgment.

- You can say something to Protect them If they ask, 鈥淗ow did the children die or Why did this happen?鈥 for example, they may be wondering 鈥淢ight this happen to us?鈥 A short, honest, and reassuring answer for a young child would be something like, 鈥淭his happened when children were separated from their parents for no reason except they were First Nations children. They were forced to live in residential schools where they were treated badly.  We don鈥檛 allow this to happen anymore. We have laws against it, and leaders who have told us how wrong it was.鈥

- Connect with them in age appropriate ways. A child in kindergarten or early elementary grades want to know that they and their loved ones are safe. Let them know they can come to you anytime they feel worried or afraid.  

- Think together about ways you and your child can reach out and make a difference.You might decide to do a good deed.There may be children in your community who can benefit from kindness and inclusion.

- Model kind and sensitive behavior. Start slowly. In the beginning, keep it brief. Your child will let you know what they are worried about which will change over time as more is known.  We know that hundreds of residential schools will now be subject to the same scrutiny as the former Kamloops Residential School. Even though some of the survivors of Kamloops have said that they were not surprised by the discovery of the child graves, there is more trauma ahead if new discoveries are made about other abuses and losses.

- Model tolerance, respect, and civic engagement. The best way to make sure your child grows up to understand the lessons of the history of Indigenous people. Sponsor a family, help out at a food bank, find a way to give back and help make the world a better place for us all. 

- In your actions, show that you believe in your child鈥檚 resilience. Yes, it is a dangerous world, and there are reasons for fear. But they are not alone and together you can use the lessons of the past to help your child feel empowered by helping to create a world that is safer, kinder, and more loving.

- Be creative. Help your child find healing avenues of creative expression, whether musical, visual, linguistic, dance or some other culturally or spiritually relevant way. 

- Teach your children how to face a crisis.  Be honest and provide reliable information.  If you don鈥檛 know, it鈥檚 o.k. to acknowledge that. You can say, 鈥楾hat鈥檚 a really good question, let鈥檚 think about how we can find the answers. Don鈥檛 overwhelm your child with more than they need to know at the time. Your child will be reassured by your honesty. Children can feel secure in a dangerous world if they feel they have a caring adult they can depend upon and trust. 

- Share your belief that love is stronger than hate. Help your child move toward constructive actions that fight every kind of bigotry, and prejudice.  Share stories of the courage of First Nations heroes in everyday life who have stood up to racism and discrimination.  Point out ways in which you have observed your child speaking out, reaching out or helping others at home, at school, in clubs, places of worship or in other activities. 

Guidelines for Parents/Guardians to support children through times of grief during and after a traumatic event (Safer Schools Together)

Be yourself 鈥 Demonstrate your natural concern calmly and in your own words.

Be available 鈥 Spend time with your child. Attempt to distract your child by reading, walking, going to a movie, etc.

Listen 鈥 Let your child express his/her thoughts, concerns, feelings, and perceptions in a nonjudgmental, emotionally safe environment.

Explain 鈥 Talk about what you know in short, truthful statements. Don鈥檛 be afraid to admit that you do not have all the answers. Do not speculate.

Develop resiliency 鈥 Your child will look to you for reassurance. Do not convey your own feelings of hopelessness, but rather let your child know that they will get through this difficult period.

Provide comfort 鈥 Physical and verbal comforts are great healers.

Attend to physical manifestations of trauma - Children will often complain of headaches, stomach aches, backaches, etc. Monitor physical symptoms such as loss of appetite, anxiety, sleep disturbance, etc. and determine whether medical intervention is required.

Maintain regular routines 鈥 As much as possible, attempt to provide normalcy to your child. Humans are creatures of habit and derive comfort from regular routines.

Monitor media exposure 鈥 Do not overexpose your child to media reports (especially preschool and elementary age children).

Seek additional support 鈥 When appropriate, your child should be directed to community support agencies.

Reference Links (NACTATR)
Canadian Resources (NACTATR)
Q'wemts铆n Health Society
 Resource Numbers
Secwe虂pemc Mental Health
 Mental Health Provider Contact List

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